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“When I look back on my life for those
things that were truly important and
rewarding, I find that none of them is about
me. They are all about other people.
Whether it was child, a family member, my
wife, even complete strangers, it was those
times when I did something for someone else
that I remember and feel good about.” An old
mentor once told me.
He went on to explain that those acts of
support and kindness he’d done, created
enduring satisfaction, and helped make him a
better person, a happier person. Jesus
tells us that serving others wins us
salvation, as well.
The word ministry used to conger up visions
of some person, who was nothing like me, in
an undeveloped country spreading the Gospel
and helping lepers. But ministry is when we
help a neighbor carry in her groceries, or
shovel the snow for a friend with the flu,
too.
Here is a piece of ministry work for you: We
were in London trying to buy a token for a
bus ride. We couldn’t figure out which bus
we needed, nor how to use the machine to
purchase the correct tokens. A Londoner
came up and answered all our questions and
explained how to use the machine.
Furthermore, when he noticed that I was
going to purchase all adult fares – because
I didn’t have the lower denomination of coin
– he actually paid for the tokens and
refused repayment. That was ministry.
Whenever we reach out to help or support
another who is in need, or do a simple
kindness, we are doing ministry. Those
people who have turned themselves into kind
and pleasant individuals who offer everyone
they meet a welcoming disposition, as well
as those that working one day a week at a
soup kitchen, or volunteering at a hospital
or old age home, are living the life God
meant them to live, because they are doing
ministry.
We honor God and show our love for Him by
spreading His love through our actions, and
our disposition. We worship God, when we
love and serve each other.
God calls each of us to this type of
ministry. He calls you to be a loving,
caring, pleasant person; He calls you to
love your neighbor.
Sometimes God puts you in the path of one in
need, but He expects you to reach out as
well as react.
When Jesus was asked what the greatest
commandment was he said, “You shall love the
Lord, your God, with all your heart, with
all your soul, and with all your mind. This
is the greatest and the first commandment.
The second is like it: You shall love your
neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the
prophets depend on these two commandments.”
You live this lesson whenever you minister
to others with love in your heart; even a
small act like holding a door open for
someone with a smile on your face shows
God’s love is in the world. Your efforts
are your love for God in action, they do
honor to Him.
There’s an old joke about a guy in a flood
that prays to God to save him. Every time
someone comes along offering help he turns
them down. After the third refusal of help,
he drowns. Face to face with God, he says,
“I can’t believe you let me drown. I prayed
to you and believed that you would save me,
why didn’t you.” God looks at him and says,
“What’s wrong with you? I sent ten people
in two boats and a helicopter, and you
turned them all away.”
You are the person that God sends to answer
prayers. At least, you should be one of
them.
So, how can you get started? Where do you
get started? Taking care of the tasks God
puts in your path is a no-brainer, but to
someone who has never gotten involved with
regular out-reach ministry getting started
can be a challenge.
I saw something
on TV recently about two men that drive
around looking for people that need help of
any kind. When they find someone who needs
help, they do everything they can to help
them. WOW! That’s dedication. That’s
humanity at its best. But we don’t all have
the time or where with all to be that
proactive, and we don’t have to be. The
thing about ministry is to do what you can
do and what you do best. There is so much
need in the world, so many things that you
can do that there is no reason for you to do
something you have a hard time doing, unless
you’re asked out right.
Through your
parish you will find more groups doing more
regularly scheduled outreach projects then
you can imagine.
In my community
parishioners of eight local Catholic and
protestant churches work together on
projects like soup kitchens, food pantries
and clothing drives for the needy and
homeless. There are programs to help
children, others to help immigrants or to
visit the elderly or infirm; and don’t
forget that your parish can always use help
just keeping up the buildings and grounds.
You know how
much it costs to keep up your home, well in
many cases your parish is paying
professionals to do maintenance, general
up-keep and remodeling work for them;
imagine how much money the parish would save
if a group of parishioners got together to
help with projects like painting rooms, and
cleaning up?
There are also
organizations already set up like the
Knights of Columbus, Habitat for Humanity,
local Loaves and Fishes organizations and
Cornerstone, as well as groups of people
loosely organized in your parish and town
who satisfy needs that they see or hear
about. Ask at your parish, find out what
type of programs and projects are available,
and then pick one that you feel comfortable
with, and give it a try. You’ll be
surprised at how great you feel, the
wonderful people you’ll meet, the
friendships you will make. It’s very
rewarding.
It’s called Ministry, and God wants us to do
it; I believe that He expects us to do it.
You can make up your own mind about that by
reading what Jesus has to say to you on the
subject. You’ll find one reference in
Matthew 25:34-46.
The best way to get started is at your
parish. Talk to the pastor or your favorite
priest. While you can do things by
yourself, remember, there is strength in
numbers, and you’ll find that a lot of your
neighbors and fellow parishioners are
already actively involved.
Cornerstone is a wonderful way to build new
alliances and friendships that will not only
help you be more effective in the ministry
you choose, but enjoy what you’re doing a
lot more.
Cornerstone has given me friendships that I
treasure, and hours of happiness doing God’s
work. Even the times I’ve spent just
sitting around talking to the good,
dependable people that I’ve met and made
friends with have been extremely valuable to
me.
Speaking as a man, I can tell you that
you’ll find your Cornerstone brothers more
loyal, trustworthy and honorable than the
guys at the bar or in the bowling league.
You’ll make friendships blessed by God. And
with these fellowships great work is done in
the name of God.
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Here are some links to get you started:
·
Cornerstone: Cornerstone Retreats
develop fellowship for parish and community
based ministry
·
Loaves and Fishes: Feeding and
distributing food locally.
·
Knights of Columbus: An historic
fraternal organization for Catholic men.
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Midnight Run: An aggressive program to
feed and clothe the homeless.
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Food Patch: An organization that
supplies food to local outreach projects
organizations.
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Bible references
Matthew 25:34-46
Then the king
will say to those on his right, 'Come, you
who are blessed by my Father. Inherit the
kingdom prepared for you from the foundation
of the world. For I was hungry and you gave
me food, I was thirsty and you gave me
drink, a stranger and you welcomed me, naked
and you clothed me, ill and you cared for
me, in prison and you visited me.'
Then the
righteous will answer him and say, 'Lord,
when did we see you hungry and feed you, or
thirsty and give you drink? When did we see
you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and
clothe you? When did we see you ill or in
prison, and visit you?'
And the king
will say to them in reply, 'Amen, I say to
you, whatever you did for one of these least
brothers of mine, you did for me.'
Then he will
say to those on his left, 'Depart from me,
you accursed, into the eternal fire prepared
for the devil and his angels. For I was
hungry and you gave me no food, I was
thirsty and you gave me no drink, a stranger
and you gave me no welcome, naked and you
gave me no clothing, ill and in prison, and
you did not care for me.'
Then they will
answer and say, 'Lord, when did we see you
hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or
ill or in prison, and not minister to your
needs?'
He will answer
them, 'Amen, I say to you, what you did not
do for one of these least ones, you did not
do for me.'
And these will
go off to eternal punishment, but the
righteous to eternal life."
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1: Matthew 22:34-40
34 When the Pharisees heard that
he had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered
together, 35 and one of them [a
scholar of the law] tested him by asking,
36 "Teacher, which commandment in
the law is the greatest?" 37 He
said to him, "You shall love the Lord, your
God, with all your heart, with all your
soul, and with all your mind. 38
This is the greatest and the first
commandment. 39 The second is
like it: You shall love your neighbor as
yourself. 40 The whole law and
the prophets depend on these two
commandments."
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